Hey everyone, let’s dive into a topic that’s been tugging at many of our hearts lately – the struggle of saying goodbye to our twin flames. A recent post really struck a chord, and I wanted to share some thoughts on it with you all.
I know that I have to turn my back on you just like you do to me, but I don’t want to lose you. You’re fine with losing me it seems. Why do I care so much? I adore you, I value you, I want to make you smile I want you in every way and I want to share everything with you. I miss your smile. I wish you’d text me back, but I couldn’t take a second more of being ignored by the one I love most that I blocked you to save myself that pain. I wonder do you really hate me? Do you love me and just hide it so well? Why do you always abandon me, when I need you most? I just wish you could have given me a reason to stay. Can barely listen to music without thinking about you. I see bits of you in everything I love.
I don’t want to lose you not again…
Wow, right? This raw, honest outpouring of emotion is something many of us can relate to. It’s like looking into a mirror of our own experiences, isn’t it?
The Twin Flame Tango: One Step Forward, Two Steps Back
Let’s face it, the twin flame journey can feel like a cosmic dance where we’re constantly out of step. One moment you’re in perfect sync, the next you’re tripping over your own feet. It’s a rollercoaster of emotions that can leave even the strongest among us feeling dizzy and disoriented.
The Runner and The Chaser: A Tale as Old as Time
In the twin flame community, we often talk about the runner and the chaser. It’s almost comical how predictable this dynamic can be, yet when we’re in it, it feels anything but funny.
- The runner: seemingly indifferent, always just out of reach
- The chaser: empathetic to a fault, always reaching out
Sound familiar? Yeah, I thought so.
The Paradox of Connection
Here’s the kicker – even when we’re apart, that connection is still there. It’s like an invisible thread tying us together, no matter how far we run. As one community member put it after an 8-month separation:
‘The connection is always there, even if it’s not visible in the physical realm. The love is undeniable and unconditional, despite the ongoing separation.’
Navigating the Separation: It’s Not Goodbye, It’s See You Later
So, how do we deal with this seemingly impossible situation? How do we say goodbye when every fiber of our being is screaming ‘stay’?
Self-Care: Your Lifeline in the Storm
First things first – take care of yourself. I know, I know, easier said than done when your heart feels like it’s been put through a blender. But trust me, it’s crucial.
- Practice self-love rituals
- Surround yourself with supportive friends and family
- Engage in activities that bring you joy and peace
Reframe Your Perspective
Instead of viewing it as a goodbye, try seeing it as a ‘see you later’. As one witty community member suggested, ‘Just say goodnight then!’ It’s a simple shift in perspective that can make a world of difference.
The Silver Lining: Growth Through Separation
Remember, the twin flame journey isn’t just about union – it’s about growth. This separation, as painful as it is, is an opportunity for both of you to evolve and become the best versions of yourselves.
In the end, whether you’re the runner or the chaser, know that you’re not alone in this journey. Our community is here to support you, to listen, and to remind you that even in the darkest moments, there’s always hope.
So, to all of you out there struggling to say goodbye – hang in there. Your story isn’t over yet. It’s just taking an unexpected plot twist.
Chart Your Path to Union
The path to union can feel lonely, confusing and downright painful. But a snapshot of the stars at the moment of your births (combined) can help us path your journey together: Get Your Twin Flame Birth Chart