If your twin flame is with someone else, it can become a very triggering situation and understandably so. From your perspective, things can seem so obvious. Why don’t they get it? Why don’t they see what seems so obvious?
Whether they’re with a false flame, karmic partner, or soulmate, it can become overwhelming, and many members of the collective have gone through it.
In a perfect world, the fact that your twin flame is with someone else right now wouldn’t bother you as much as it most likely does. Even when you understand the purpose of twin flames, logic has already left the building. Emotions are calling the shots.
Because, in a perfect world, you’d already be in a harmonious divine union and making your way toward your merging phase.
But that perfect world is still a work in progress. So what we can do right now is understand why these things are happening and how to overcome the issues you face.
Why Is Your Twin Flame With Someone Else?
Let’s get one thing out of the way. The fact that your mirror soul is with someone else when you meet them or get together with someone else when you break up at one point doesn’t mean they’re not your twin flame.
A temporary situation won’t be the ultimate sign that someone is or isn’t your twin flame. If your intuition, higher self, spiritual team, higher power, and the Universe have confirmed that they’re your twin, then they are. You’ve probably seen many signs you met your twin flame.
Once you’ve confirmed spiritually that they are your twin, that’s the truth of your soul. We’re not exploring the possibility you’re dealing with a false twin flame. But if you are dealing with that, consider cutting cords with a false twin flame.
There can be one or more reasons why your divine counterpart is currently with someone else. We’ll mention a few. One or more of them may or may not apply to your situation. Always follow your intuition when it comes to these things. It’s your best-guiding compass on your twin flame journey.
1. Unhealed Shadows, Inner Child Issues, And Wounds
One of the most common reasons for a hesitant divine counterpart is unhealed shadows, inner child issues, and wounds. Those lower frequencies are stalling your and your twin’s progress and growth.
The dynamic in your bond can be deeply triggering. Part of the reason why that happens is precisely to push you both into intense healing.
2. Unresolved Karmic Debts
When it comes to a twin flame relationship, there are three karmic aspects to consider: your karma, your twin’s karma, and the karma of your bond.
With so many variables, it can be tough to resolve as much karmic debt as you’d like within the timeframe of your desire. It’s going to take some extra work, but you can and will get there.
3. They’re In Full Twin Flame Runner Mode
If your twin is freaking out about their true destiny, they’re very likely to go into full runner mode. Each runner works through this phase at their own pace.
And have no doubt, this is just a phase. You will both outgrow it!
4. They’ve Decided To Put The Journey On Hold Temporarily
Sometimes, runners take a break from the journey for a while. Other times, they might put the journey on hold for the duration of their 3D experience.
Don’t freak out about that, though! You have endless lifetimes at your disposal to make your divine union happen.
How To Overcome The Fact That Your Divine Counterpart Is With Someone Else
There’s no easy way to get through this phase of your twin flame journey. If anyone says it’s easy to get through this part of your experience, they don’t know what they’re talking about.
But during such tough times, it’s important to remember a couple key facts. Your twin flame bond is unbreakable and neverending. It transforms into your merged energy once you get to that phase. It’s infinite.
There’s a sacred soul tie of unconditional love between your soul and your twin’s soul. Time, space, and events of any kind can never truly change that.
As you bask in the truth of these key facts, there are a few steps you can take to deal with this phase as gracefully as possible.
1. Intensify Your Efforts To Achieve Spiritual Growth And Development
To make a long story short, your twin is with someone else because they’ve not done enough spiritual work and progress to embrace their soul’s inner truth.
You can’t embrace it for them, true. But by working on your own spiritual growth and development, you support and guide them to do the same. They’ll feel called to follow in your footsteps.
2. Raise The Frequency Of Your Bond
By raising the vibe of your bond, you can help your twin to deal with their issues in an easier and more graceful way.
There are various things you can do to help raise the frequency of your bond. Healing, protective, and cleansing crystals are a wonderful option. Yoga, meditation, using affirmations and subliminals, and doing energy healing are also great options.
3. Focus On Healing Karmic Debts, Shadows, Inner Child Issues, And Wounds
You and your twin could still be dealing with the low frequencies of shadows, inner child issues, karmic debts, and wounds. By healing as much as you can, you introduce healing energy into your twin’s energetic field through your soul tie.
Your healing encourages your twin’s healing. Of course, you can only plant the seed into their energy. It’s up to them to do the actual work.
4. Work On Surrendering To Your Flame Destiny
The surrendering phase of your twin flame journey is one of the most challenging for many twins. It seems deceptively easy to surrender. Actually, it’s one of the most difficult steps of your spiritual journey.
Surrendering means going with the flow of energy as it transforms and expands. It’s an exercise of showering your unconditional love on yourself, your destiny, the divine, and your twin flame and flame destiny.
If you need some help with that, you can use the Bright Flame Unification Blueprint to support your progress.