The rollercoaster ride of surrender on our twin flame journey is a common experience. One community member shared:
For the past month I’ve been popping in and out of surrender. One day I’m in chasey energy, feeling our connection, yearning and just being struck with overwhelming love, other days I wake up and I’m over it, like I’m at peace with the situation and feel like I’m letting go.
This ebb and flow is a typical part of the twin flame experience. Let’s explore what it means and how we can navigate it.
The Surrender Seesaw
Chasey Days vs. Peace Days
The emotional shifts between feeling deeply connected and completely at peace about the situation are common. This back-and-forth is actually a sign of progress.
The Battle Within
The internal conflict often signifies that you’re doing the inner work needed to reach full surrender. It’s not always comfortable, but it’s necessary for growth.
Reframing the Journey
Our friend shared an insight from their soul cards:
‘Am I focused on what I’m losing or gaining?’
This perspective shift can open us up to the gifts of this journey:
- Independence
- Courage
- Integrity
- Self-worth
- Self-validation
- Healing
- Self-love
Embracing the Process
It’s okay to feel exhausted or indifferent at times. These low-energy moments are often when we’re processing and integrating the most. Trust the process and be gentle with yourself.
Tips for Navigating the Waves
1. Practice mindfulness to observe your emotions without judgment
2. Use affirmations to reinforce your self-worth and trust in the journey
3. Connect with others in the twin flame community for support and shared experiences
Each phase – whether it’s yearning or letting go – is bringing us closer to our highest selves and ultimate union.
Chart Your Path to Union
The path to union can feel lonely, confusing and downright painful. But a snapshot of the stars at the moment of your births (combined) can help us path your journey together: Get Your Twin Flame Birth Chart