So, someone asked if it’s possible to end the constant feeling of their twin flame being in their mind and heart, and the responses were super insightful.
I’m not chasing. I’m not texting. I try to work on myself and stay busy. But they are just there in my head/mind/soul/heart all of the time. It’s at the point where I want it to stop. Can I not feel them all of the time? Or is this shit forever? It’s been like 8 months of no contact and it hasn’t gotten better, they haven’t reached out, I’ve stopped reaching out months ago. I still can’t shake them from my soul. I used to want this and now I want to be free of it mostly because I don’t think they are coming back, I think I’m probably crazy. How do you make it stop? Are there spiritual consequences to that? Is it even possible due to being the same soul and all? Is this forever?
I literally can’t continue feeling this way everyday. I can’t have them constantly on my mind. It’s exhausting and depressing at this point.
Firstly, it’s a common experience—many people feel like this connection never really stops, even after months or years of no contact. One member mentioned that it’s been 11 years and they still go through random obsessive phases, but surrendering to the flow state has helped them cope better.
Others chimed in with similar sentiments. A few have been dealing with it for 6 months to 14 years, and they shared that the feeling may wax and wane, but it doesn’t completely go away. Someone highlighted that a twin flame is a piece of yourself, and while you have free will, completely severing that connection isn’t really possible.
A really interesting point was about learning new lessons each time or life, suggesting that this journey has a broader spiritual purpose. So, while it’s exhausting and tiring, many in the community agree that surrendering and focusing on personal growth can make it more manageable. Hang in there, everyone—this journey is tough, but we’re all in it together!
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