The pain and torment of twin flame separation can be tough to deal with. Thoughts of them can start to rule your life, and sometimes this constant attention doesn’t seem to be helping things.
Ignoring a twin flame runner may seem like the simplest solution, but is it right? Is it even possible?
Can You Ignore Your Twin Flame?
On some level, you’re both constantly connected. Twin flame telepathy never just ‘goes away’, and both of your higher selves are constantly working together to bring you closer.
However, that doesn’t mean you need to keep your conscious focus on them 24/7. Wallowing in the loss and pain of separation doesn’t give you the opportunity to grow, heal and move forward in your path.
Some people take that to mean they should ignore the twin flame path entirely, but I don’t think this is the right approach either.
Trying to ignore the problem of separation is like trying to ignore an open wound. You’re not treating it, you’re not doing the healing, and you’re probably not going to see anything change.
But we’re not talking about a complete disconnect from your twin flame path. We’re just talking about shifting your attention a little.
Should You Ignore Your Twin Flame?
There are a lot of different beliefs on this, but that’s because everyone’s path is going to be a little different, and your level of physical connection to them is likely to change over time if your separation drags out.
We believe it’s perfectly fine to keep in contact with your twin flame as long as you are also able to further your path. Where this gets complicated is most twin flames probably need to maintain a no-contact situation in order to further their path fully.
How to Stop Thinking About Your Twin Flame
Rather than framing this connection as a distraction or hindrance, look at the opportunity for personal growth and spiritual understanding.
- Understanding the Connection: Recognizing the twin flame connection is not about dwelling on ‘what ifs’ or negative scenarios. It’s about embracing the fact that you are still connected and allowing that belief to rise above any negative thoughts.
- Understand how the twin flame runner feels. This is often one of the most misunderstood parts of separation and might make it easier to bring your focus in the right direction.
- Taking Positive Action: Instead of merely trying to stop thinking about your twin flame, the article encourages engaging in activities that you love. Painting, dancing, cooking, or playing sports can connect you with your higher self and bring joy to your soul.
- Focusing on Self-Improvement: The article promotes working on being the best you can be. By focusing on self-improvement and doing what you love, you can deal with negative energy blockages and feel lighter inside. This approach not only helps you focus on yourself but also takes care of others. If you’re not sure where to start, twin flame meditation is a great start.
- Embracing the Journey: The connection with your twin flame is not something to be stopped or controlled. It’s a part of your spiritual journey. By embracing this connection and focusing on personal growth, joy, and self-love, you can transform your life in a positive way.
Remember to see your path (including separation) as a catalyst for personal growth and fulfillment rather than a problem to be solved. It’s about embracing love, connection, and the joy of being alive, and using those feelings to fuel a more positive and fulfilling connection.