“I’d rather just move on. I don’t have the desire to bring this back into my life. Thanks for understanding.”
This is what he said to me. Is there any hope that he’ll come back? I’ve been dating and doing my own thing but every time I read this, my heart sinks again. Anyone have an experience where they said this and came back? We’ve never left things without an open door so this separation stings differently ?
Hey everyone, I wanted to share some insights from a recent discussion about dealing with separation from your twin flame. One member shared their heartbreaking experience of being told, “I’d rather just move on. I don’t have the desire to bring this back into my life. Thanks for understanding.” This sparked a lot of deep and supportive responses that I think we can all learn from.
Firstly, many folks emphasized the importance of truly moving on. As one member put it, even asking questions about him means you’re still focusing on him. “Give your twin some space and time,” was a common piece of advice. It’s all about trusting the journey, even when it doesn’t make sense.
One story that really stood out was from someone who felt shattered and had to rebuild themselves after their twin said goodbye for good. They reminded us that everyone’s journey is different—some twins come back, and some don’t. Another key point was to not force yourself to date just to feel something else. Instead, focus on rewarding yourself and your personal growth.
Another member shared their struggle of trying to stop wondering about the outcome. They’ve been focusing on personal and professional goals, and building relationships with friends and family. This approach might be lonely, but it’s also rewarding and helps shift the focus back to yourself.
Lastly, someone shared a tough experience where their twin expressed unwavering love for someone else. They emphasized that “unconditional love doesn’t mean unconditional acceptance or tolerance.” We deserve to live our lives without letting the outcome of our twin flame journey dictate it. So, let’s keep supporting each other and remember that our own happiness should be the priority.
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