The twin flame runner dynamic can be incredibly frustrating, characterized by a constant push and pull that often leaves you feeling emotionally drained. This behavior is typically driven by intense spiritual and emotional challenges that your twin flame is grappling with internally.
Remember: The runner is drained as well and in some ways they can even have it harder. They don’t know where this emotional energty is coming from and often have never heard the term ‘twin flame’.
The Push and Pull Phenomenon
The push-pull dynamic is often fueled by your twin flame’s internal conflict. They feel an undeniable connection to you, but simultaneously experience a fear of losing their independence. This creates a cycle where they:
1. Pull away to regain a sense of control
2. Reach out again because they can’t fully disconnect from the emotional bond
This behavior isn’t about not wanting you; it’s about their struggle with the depth and intensity of the connection. They might not fully understand their actions, but the bond is simply too strong to ignore completely.
Why Your Twin Flame Runner Keeps Reaching Out
Unresolved Emotional Connections
Your twin flame runner keeps coming back because the emotional bond is incredibly resilient. They may be dealing with:
- Unresolved emotional wounds
- Spiritual lessons that need addressing
- Subconscious pull towards their own growth and healing
The connection constantly draws them back to you as part of their growth process, even if they’re not consciously aware of it.
Fear of True Commitment
The fear of committing fully to the twin flame journey can be overwhelming. Your runner might be:
- Grappling with deep-seated fears
- Struggling to face parts of themselves that the connection brings to light
- Torn between the intensity of the bond and their need for familiarity
It’s crucial to remember that their reaching out, despite not fully committing, is often because the pull towards you is undeniable and something they can’t easily ignore.
Navigating the Emotional Transference
As frustrating as this situation can be, it’s important to focus on your own emotional wellbeing. Consider these strategies:
- Set clear boundaries to protect your energy
- Practice self-love and focus on your personal growth
- Understand that their behavior reflects their inner journey, not your worth
Remember, the twin flame journey is about growth and healing for both parties. While it’s challenging, try to view their actions through a lens of compassion, both for them and for yourself.
Chart Your Path to Union
The path to union can feel lonely, confusing and downright painful. But a snapshot of the stars at the moment of your births (combined) can help us path your journey together: Get Your Twin Flame Birth Chart