Sometimes, there’s a bit of confusion about Divine Masculine and Feminine twin flames. And since we recently launched our DM to DF message service, we’ve (understandably) seen even more confusion.
What does it mean? How does it affect your journey? Does every twin flame pair have a divine masculine and feminine?
On top of all this, some… recent events have made things even more difficult for some twin flames.
Divine Masculine And Divine Feminine Energies In Twin Flames
First and foremost, Divine Masculine and Feminine energy has nothing to do with gender. It has nothing to do with sexual orientation either, precisely because it has nothing to do with gender.
The Masculine and Feminine energies are within all of us, regardless of our gender or sexual orientation. They are part of our souls and the dynamics going on within us. As a result, in twin flame relationships, they affect the path toward divine union.
There will always be Divine Feminine and Divine Masculine within a twin flame relationship because there will always be a Divine Feminine and Divine Masculine energy within each twin flame.
Some twin flames identify as a Divine Masculine or a Divine Feminine energy within the couple.
Those who are just getting started with their spiritual growth journey might think that it has something to do with their gender during this human experience or with what role they’d like to play or think they’re meant to play in a relationship or dynamic.
They might base their understanding of the energy dynamics on their traits at that particular point in time. But your energetic forces are constantly growing, shifting, and evolving.
If you feel more Feminine or more Masculine in energy, that doesn’t make you a definitive Feminine or Masculine for the whole twin flame journey. The more you perceive and conceptualize things in separate ways, the more you hinder your divine union, not support it.
During one lifespan, you and your twin flame are constantly going to grow and adapt to each other’s energy. That’s why achieving harmonious divine union is not the same thing as being in a twin flame relationship.
Getting into a twin flame relationship is not the end of your twin flame journey but only the beginning of the hardcore work. Part of the reason for that is that your energy dynamics are constantly going to change within each of you, and your twin’s energy is constantly going to harmonize with yours and vice versa.
That goes on until you’ve both reached an authentic inner balance and you harmonize on that level. The divine union within the twin flame bond is a result of the divine union within each of the twins. It’s the 3D world mirroring the spiritual truth within your souls.
One of the ways you can tell you’re in a false flame situation, for instance, is exactly the fact that it never goes toward balance but rather cultivates chaos within your soul. The lack of balance helps you understand if you’re dealing with a twin flame or trauma bond.
Ultimately, divine union is not about the Masculine and Feminine principles being separate. It’s about Masculine and Feminine working together as one until they actually become one.
Energy Dynamics And Harmony In Twin Flame Couples
A lot of what goes on in your twin flame journey is like a dance.
There are moments when someone takes the lead, and the other doesn’t want to surrender to it. Other times, both twin flames take the lead at the same time, but they’re not actually going in the same direction. You’re very likely to step on each other’s feet quite a few times before you get in sync.
And while that’s going on between you and your twin flame in the 3D, it’s going on within each of your souls. The energies of taking the lead (Masculine) and surrendering to it (Feminine) alternate within each of you every step of the way.
The more you work on healing your shadows, inner child issues, and karmic debts, the easier it becomes for the Divine Feminine and Divine Masculine energies to flow through you and between you as twin flames.
In order to achieve that state of harmony within self and within the twin flame bond, you can try different tools and methods. It’s a personal journey for each of you and, at the same time, the journey of your bond.
How To Optimize Your Twin Flame Bond Energies
There’s no one easy-to-follow recipe for optimizing your twin flame bond energies. Each twin flame journey is unique and comes with its own set of challenges and blessings. Each 3D experience of the same twin flame souls comes with its own details of your twin flame relationship blueprint.
Only you and your twin flame can come up with your bond’s recipe for success. And you do that by doing your own work and the work for your bond together.
In the end, your intuition is the best guide to make progress on your journey toward divine union. Listen to your intuition and follow its guidance. Your soul knows the way. You just have to follow it.
1. Spiritual Growth And Development
The only true way forward as twin flames is through spiritual growth and development. By growing, you’ll discover and understand things at a higher level. You’ll see things from a higher spiritual vantage point. Things will fall into place with more ease.
2. Healing And Supporting Yourself, Your Twin, And Your Twin Flame Bond
The only way to move forward is to resolve the baggage you’re carrying.
There’s a lot of healing involved in your twin flame journey. Focus on healing yourself, your twin, and your bond. You can multiple tools to do that: therapy, yoga, meditation, affirmations, crystal healing, twin flame Reiki and so on.
Do the best you can and trust the fact that your twin is always doing the best they can, too. Love and cherish yourself, your twin, and your bond unconditionally.
3. Surrendering To Your Flame Destiny
Surrender to the truth that in divine timing, you’ll get to your divine union. You were literally born to get there, after all. Flow with the energies of the Universe and the divine and allow your divine union to manifest.
If you run into issues with any of these steps, you can use the Bright Flame Unification Blueprint to help you along the way.