We often see the twin flame journey portrayed on social media as this immediately perfect love. But what about when it feels like your twin flame actually hates you?
Two years ago, Jenny’s twin flame blocked her on every platform and told their mutual friends that she was toxic. Today? They’re married. But the path between those two moments revealed something about twin flame connections that nobody seems to talk about.
Your twin flame’s ‘hatred’ isn’t just a roadblock – it’s actually a hidden shortcut to union. Sounds crazy, right? But Jenny’s journey proves that what feels like rejection can be the universe’s way of fast-tracking your growth. These emotions can be secretly working in your favor (even though it doesn’t always feel like it).
But before we get to that, my name is Katrina with Twin Flame Collective. Our mission is to help twin flames actually make progress on their journey to reunion, whether it feels like your twin currently hates you or not.
The twin flame journey is often romanticized, but the reality is a lot harder than people expect. This is usually the stage when a lot of people who think they’re on the twin flame journey but have just mistaken it for Limerence quit.
True twin flames learn to truly understand the intense conflict for what it really is. Not obstacles but essential parts of the journey. Feelings of hatred manifestation can actually be a sign of an incredibly strong connection, and that’s exactly what we see in Jenny’s case. It’s a counterintuitive principle, but see if you can spot when the shift happens for both of them.
When Jenny first reached out to me, she told me, “He blocked me everywhere. Our mutual friends are taking sides. I don’t understand how we went from perfect to this.“
I felt for her, but I wasn’t surprised. Jenny had contacted me after spotting the connection for what it was, and they had never had a separation before. She was waiting for the other shoe to drop and knew they probably had some work still to do. I generally trust my client’s intuition, and sure enough, it was only a few weeks later when she received some angry messages.
She was, understandably, hurt and upset. Bordering on angry herself.
What she didn’t realize was that this intense negativity was actually her twin flame’s fear-based energy manifesting. He didn’t actually hate her. Really, it had nothing to do with her.
When two souls share the exact same frequency, that connection can feel… overwhelming. The mind tries to protect itself through rejection. Her runner probably couldn’t even explain to himself why he was angry. The catch-22 is that his anger would trigger Jenny’s confusion, and that confusion would then reverberate through their telepathic connection.
The result is that her runner would then be even more confused and more angry. This cycle of confusion and anger seemed endless, but all it needed was that first domino to fall.
The breakthrough came when Jenny stopped trying to fix or understand his anger. Instead of reacting to his messages or trying to explain herself, she focused inward on balancing her own energy. Within weeks, his angry messages shifted to confusion, then curiosity. The hatred had been masking a deeper truth – their connection was too powerful for him to ignore.
This shift in Jenny’s approach revealed a crucial truth about twin flame connections: the intensity of negative emotions mirrors the strength of the bond.
By focusing on her own energy, Jenny inadvertently created a safe space for her twin to process his own fears. This is where many twin flames stumble, but it’s also where the most profound growth occurs.
When Jenny asked me about what to do about his anger, I had three suggestions.
First, she needed to start journaling her triggers instead of responding to them. This practice allowed her to process her emotions without projecting them onto her twin, breaking the cycle of mutual triggering.
The second suggestion was to visualize a protective bubble of light around herself daily. This energetic shield helped her maintain her own frequency, regardless of her twin’s emotional state. This one is often easier said than done, but journaling would also help.
Lastly, I introduced Jenny to the practice of ‘energetic cord cutting.’ Not to sever their connection but to release the negative attachments. (Carla actually just did a session for that here).
She visualized cutting cords of fear, doubt, and anger, replacing them with love and understanding. The results were immediate and profound. Her twin’s hostility melted away, replaced by a deep, inexplicable longing to reconnect.
Within two weeks work, she had replaced her need to reach out to him, and the runner/chaser dynamic reversed itself. He started messaging her, and his anger seemingly vanished and was replaced with confusion.
I know a lot of this advice can feel easier to say than to do. That’s often the case with twin flame advice, but this isn’t just theory. It’s the exact formula that helped Jenny go from being blocked on every platform to walking down the aisle, proving that what feels like an ending can be the catalyst for your true beginning.
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